Henri J.M. Nouwen Quotes

People who read your ideas tend to think that your writings reflect your life.

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Hospitality means primarily the creation of free space where the stranger can enter and become a friend instead of an enemy. Hospitality is not to change people, but to offer them space where change can take place. It is not to bring men and women over to our side, but to offer freedom not disturbed by dividing lines.

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Forgiveness is the name of love practiced among people who love poorly. The hard truth is that all people love poorly. We need to forgive and be forgiven every day, every hour increasingly. That is the great work of love among the fellowship of the weak that is the human family.

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The spiritual life does not remove us from the world but leads us deeper into it

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Theological formation is the gradual and often painful discovery of God's incomprehensibility. You can be competent in many things, but you cannot be competent in God.

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When we face death with hope, we can live life with generosity.

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The return to the "Father from whom all fatherhood takes its name" allows me to let my dad be no less than the good, loving, but limited human being he is, and to let my heavenly Father be the God whose unlimited, unconditional love melts away all resentments and anger and makes me free to love beyond the need to please or find approval.

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Prayer is the center of the Christian life. It is the only necessary thing. It is living with God in the here and now.

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The real mystery of marriage is not that husband and wife love each other so much that they can recognize God in each other's lives, but more because God loves them so much that they can discover each other more and more as living reminder's of God's presence.

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In solitude we realize that nothing human is alien to us.

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Our humanity comes to its fullest bloom in giving. We become beautiful people when we give whatever we can give: a smile, a handshake, a kiss, an embrace, a word of love, a present, a part of our life...all of our life.

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Jesus changes our history from a random series of sad incidents and accidents into a constant opportunity for a change of heart.

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Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.

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Joy is based on the spiritual knowledge that, while the world in which we live is shrouded in darkness, God has overcome the world.

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While optimism makes us live as if someday soon things will soon go better for us, hope frees us from the need to predict the future and allows us to live in the present, with the deep trust that God will never leave us alone but will fulfill the deepest desires of our heart... Joy in this perspective is the fruit of hope.

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Our society is so fragmented, our family lives so sundered by physical and emotional distance, our friendships so sporadic, our intimacies so 'in-between' things and often so utilitarian, that there are few places where we can feel truly safe.

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When we are crushed like grapes, we cannot think of the wine we will become.

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